Parent Alienation Awareness

The April 25th is Parental Alienation Awareness Day. With a rapid rise in cases of parental alienation in the UK, recent court judgements show that courts are not taking the matter lightly and are unafraid to take action against offenders.

Parental alienation refers to a process in which a parent acts or speaks in a way, without legitimate justification, that causes the child to not want to maintain a relationship with the other parent.

The latest 2020 report from the Children’s Commissioner finds that one in eight children have been diagnosed with at least one mental health disorder. The separation of their parents is the most common adverse life event they identified.

In the turmoil of relationship breakdown and separation, some parents’ own emotional state blinds them to their children’s needs. A parent’s need for validation or revenge overrides their focus on the ongoing healthy needs of their child for the continued love and care of both parents and the child’s wider family. 

The destructive impact of parental alienation on a child’s impressionable mind can be evidenced not only by unnatural behaviours but also how they choose to express themselves.

Children who are manipulated to cut off all ties with a parent, may experience:

  • Feelings of extreme pressure to reject a parent and extended family members whom they love.
  • Anxiety.
  • Guilt for rejecting their parent and treating them with hostility.
  • Psychological harm.
  • Sadness because, deep down, they want a relationship with their parent.
  • Suppressed and repressed memories of time spent with the rejected parent.
  • Sleeplessness.
  • Agitation.
  • Inability to think critically or to describe their emotions. 
  • Lack of focus.
  • Loss of ability to play and learn.

As a family solicitor, I am often instructed by parent’s suffering parental alienation who are concerned for their child’s welfare because of this abusive behaviour from the other parent. Not only does it negatively affect the chid involved but the parent being alienated suffers greatly without justification. If you require legal assistance to protect your child from this form of domestic abuse and assistance through this emotional and distressing situation, please contact us on 0191 5006050 or at

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